Bonham -- January is National Mentoring Month and a small luncheon January 20 was a tribute to caring community members who have had a big impact in the lives of local children. And listening to these Big Brother Big Sister mentors made you wonder if the adults weren't enjoying the rewards of this program even more than their young friends.

"I find that I get to do a lot of things that I wouldn't get to do otherwise," said one of the Big Brothers, Barry Frambes.

Barry Frambes

For some Big Brother Big Sister mentors, that means spending a few hours each month checking out a movie, going fishing or just kicking back and watching TV. Of course, almost any Little Brother or Little Sister would enjoy a bits of conversation in between bites of ice cream or pizza.

These visits can fit into your schedule, too.  Saturdays, weekday evenings -- the day or time isn't the important part of this program.  What is important is the difference a positive role model can have in the shaping the future of the next generation.

And what a difference, too. Research indicates that children matched up with a caring Big Brother Big Sister are: 

• 46% less likely to begin using illegal drugs
• 27% less likely to begin using alcohol
• 52% less likely to skip school
• 37% less likely to skip a class
• 33% less likely to hit someone

In this well thought out program, following the initial screening of volunteers, Big Brothers and Big Sisters are carefully matched with a LIttle Brother or Little Sister. Just as important, after the match the professionals at Big Brothers Big Sisters continue to be a valuable resource of guidance and inspiration.

"This is a role I never anticipated playing, but I am finding it surprizingly easy," John Howell said of his experience of being a Big Brother and mentor to a Fannin County youngster.

For Big Sister Lori Clayton, it is the thought of time spent with a very kind, gentle and loving Little Sister that brings a smile to her face.

For those who aren't able to participate as a Big Brother or Big Sister, there are a myriad of opportunities to be involved. Donations of any amount are welcomed. Big Brothers Big Sisters estimates that it requires $1,000 per year to support each match. There are currently 17 active matches in Fannin County.

Another way to help is to simply support BBBS fundraisers. The next big event will be Bowl For Kid's Sake slated April 14 at Lone Star Lanes in Sherman.

Big Brothers Big Sisters Regional Executive Director Emily Neeley not only directs this organization in Lamar, Fannin and Grayson counties, Neeley practices what she preaches and has a Little Brother that has become "just like part of our family."

"We want to make a difference in the lives of these kids," Neeley states.

Every successful adult has fond memories of someone who took a little time to explain the rewards and consequences of the choices we all make in life.

Who will remember you that way?  

Emily Neeley

 For more information, please contact Emily Neeley  eneeley@bbbstx.org or 1-888-887-2447 X 503, Brenda_Moore@tamu-commerce.edu or Dana Nowlin at dnowlin@bbbstx.org (903) 517-9196.

Brenda Moore

Sharon Terry

Lori Clayton

BBBS Enrollment Specialists (L-R) Susan Weaver and Dana Nowlin

John Howell